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Single Mother Survival Guide

Becoming a single mum is one of the most daunting and overwhelming life changes someone will ever go through. Whether you are pregnant or have teenagers, you will most likely be confused and struggling with what to do next. I became a single mother in 2013 when my daughter was just a few months old, and it has been a challenging but rewarding journey ever since. This Podcast (and the website www.singlemothersurvivalguide.com) was created to assist newly single mothers in all things they may need to know about. SO WHAT IS THE SINGLE MOTHER SURVIVAL GUIDE PODCAST ABOUT? A Podcast for single mums, made by a single mum… The Single Mother Survival Guide Podcast includes a mixture of me babbling about single mums business, and interviews and discussions with different people and experts about different topics. First off the ranks this includes an interview with a Wills and Estate lawyer which contains everything YOU need to know about getting a Will done, an interview with a financial adviser on everyday money management, savings, spending and so forth, an interview with an online security expert so that YOU know how to keep yourself secure online, an open interview with a domestic violence survivor and advocate, and another interview with a financial adviser on everything to do with insurance, and what you should think about getting insured to ensure the financial safety for you and your kids. Coming up after that I have chats with people including parenting experts, family lawyers, and a life coach. I also chat about the social stigma of being a single mum, single parent travel, everyday tips to make YOUR life easier, dating, personal budgeting, resources out there to help YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN, child support, domestic violence, successful co-parenting, advantages to being a single mum, and the list goes on…
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Now displaying: November, 2019
Nov 26, 2019

When her daughter was six, Evie Farrell left her corporate job, packed up her house, and embarked upon a two and half year backpacking adventure travelling around the globe. Evie is a single mum, inspiring people all over the world to travel with their kids. She runs the travel blog and Instagram account Mumpack Travel and is the author of the book Backyard to Backpack.

In this episode, Evie chats about:

  • Her relationship with her ex and how it came to end.
  • Hanging on to hope in a bad relationship.
  • How her ex leaving her was the best thing that happened for both her ex and her.
  • How sometimes when a relationship ends, the people you thought were friends are lost, but how it can also lead to the rekindling of other friendships.
  • What inspired her to leave Sydney and start travelling the world with her daughter Emmie.
  • Homeschooling and travel.
  • Getting robbed in Spain.
  • Dealing with trolls.
  • Dealing with different safety standards in foreign countries.
  • How travelling changed her.
  • How travelling taught her daughter about confidence, and how it has opened her mind to be accepting and aware of the world and different cultures and religions.
  • Travelling with kids of different ages.
  • Plus LOTS LOTS more.

Evie also shares her favourite thing about being a single mum and her advice for any single mum keen to travel with kids.

You will absolutely LOVE this episode and the inspiration that Evie provides.

Links mentioned in the episode:

To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com.

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Nov 19, 2019

My (anonymous) guest from last week is back this week to talk about raising teenage girls solo, plus she fills us in on her new relationship. 

This is Part 2 of a two-part episode. You can listen to Part 1 here

Last week she told us about her single mum story - she was with her husband for 18 years when one ordinary day, seven years ago, she got home from work early and discovered that all his clothes were gone. He didn't respond to any attempts she made to communicate with him. He had vanished into thin air.

Almost a week later she was walking through the shopping centre when she ran into him. He completely gaslighted her and called her crazy. My guest describes her experience like her husband being alive one day and dead the next (only he wasn't dead).

In last week's episode we discussed all of that plus my guest also shared:

  • how, in hindsight, his behaviour had changed over the 12 months prior in that he was going out regularly until the early hours of the morning and caring more about his appearance,
  • how one day she got home and he had just moved back in,
  • discovering his new relationship,
  • realising how abusive he was after the relationship ended and how he had constantly gaslighted her,
  • the continuing abuse and death threats that continued even after the relationship ended,
  • child support issues,
  • the importance of teaching her children self-respect,
  • having to get an AVO out, and
  • how, ultimately, she is grateful for the experience because it has made her the woman she is today, and it's made her kids the people they are today. 

Links mentioned in the episode:

To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com.

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on FacebookInstagramTwitter, or Pinterest.

Nov 12, 2019

My (anonymous) guest on the show this week was with her husband for 18 years. One ordinary day, seven years ago, she got home from work early and discovered that all his clothes were gone. He didn't respond to any attempts she made to communicate with him. He had vanished into thin air.

Almost a week later she was walking through the shopping centre when she ran into him. He completely gaslighted her and called her crazy. My guest describes her experience like her husband being alive one day and dead the next (only he wasn't dead).

In this episode, my guest shares her story. She also shares:

  • how, in hindsight, his behaviour had changed over the 12 months prior in that he was going out regularly until the early hours of the morning and caring more about his appearance,
  • how one day she got home and he had just moved back in,
  • discovering his new relationship,
  • realising how abusive he was after the relationship ended and how he had constantly gaslighted her,
  • the continuing abuse and death threats that continued even after the relationship ended,
  • child support issues,
  • the importance of teaching her children self-respect,
  • having to get an AVO out, and
  • how, ultimately, she is grateful for the experience because it has made her the woman she is today, and it's made her kids the people they are today. 

This is Part 1 of a two-part episode. Part 2 will be released next week.  

Links mentioned in the episode:

To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com.

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on FacebookInstagramTwitter, or Pinterest.

Nov 5, 2019

In this episode, I answer some more questions sent in by listeners. These questions relate to:

  • Setting yourself up for leaving a partner.
  • When your new partner struggles to accept your children.
  • Setting up a parenting schedule to help an ex foster a relationship with your child but they keep letting you down. 
 Links mentioned in the episode:

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 To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com.

Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide

Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on FacebookInstagramTwitter, or Pinterest.

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